Sunday, May 9th
Today I’m taking off to head to Kansas for Grandma’s funeral. Although I certainly wish I was making the trip for a different reason, I am excited to be going. For me this area has a very strong pull. Perhaps because it is where I first felt strong ties to the family that came before me and is where we have our history. This is the area that gives me my roots, so in a way this feels like going home.
Of course, part of what makes a place home is the people. Now that both my grandparents have passed, I wonder if I’ll still feel the connection? I do expect it to feel empty. Especially without the sound of my Grandmother’s voice and laugh which were always present. Grandpa was a man of few words and they were always chosen with the utmost thought. The aroma of his pipe however, that was always present.
So, with these thoughts I board a plane in Seattle, bound for Minneapolis-St. Paul. There is no direct way to where I’m going and that seems very appropriate.
Minneapolis-St. Paul to Tulsa. Thanks to Delta for landing me on one end of airport and having my connection on the complete opposite end. Allowed me to see the ENTIRE airport (and there actually was a very nice shopping area between concourses; a place for stranded folks to spend $$?). The next plane is considerably smaller. My exact tweet was: “Tiny plane. I think we might all have to make engine noises to take off.” We didn’t quite, but it certainly fills the bill of smaller plane.
Tulsa. We were the last plane to land for the evening. The security guard literally let me out of the concourse and locked up behind me. Ahead of me: a 2+ hour drive to a house that I know won’t be the same. Somehow, the long and very dark road pictured above is the perfect analogy.


